Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Memorial Day Weekend 2012 ... and potty training

It was a "big" weekend ... yet, we didn't go anywhere. It was the weekend I have had set aside on our calendars for months now as the 3-day window to potty train Mia.  A friend had recently sent me a copy of The 3-Day Potty Training Method.  I knew I needed to try something different this time around (after the potty training that went on and on and on with Luke), and after reading her potty training "manual," I decided to give it a try.
So, we got started right after breakfast on Saturday.  I explained that the diapers were going away so that the other babies can use them, and that she needed to wear panties going forward.  Mia, not surprisingly, had several accidents on Saturday, but we just continued to follow the instructions (which, by the way, include wearing panties with a shirt and no pants - hence you can see that she had no pants on in any of the photographs from this weekend).

By evening on Saturday, we were happy to accept my parents' offer to have dinner at their house.  Although the plan suggests not going ANYwhere, I figured that going so close and still having easy access to the potty would be fine.  Interestingly, Mia seemed to really "get it" while we were there and had NO accidents that evening!  She even initiated going to the potty and was successful several times (and there were several ... okay, probably 10-12 ... times when we went to the potty but nothing came out!).

Coloring at Day & Paw's with her panties on
Sunday was not quite as lucky.  I don't think she went in the potty even once :(  ... and I have no photos from that day because, frankly, all you would see would be me in my dirty pajamas cleaning up accidents and running loads of laundry.

Monday we executed on a project in the yard that we've been talking about for quite a long time now:  planting a garden.  It's a small plot, but a great amount of space for us to start with.  Michael worked the previous days to clear the plot and frame the bed.  I figured it was a good idea to have Mia outside.












We planted tomatoes, peppers, summer squash, strawberries, various herbs, and still have a space designated for some arugula.  So excited to start growing some of our own fruits and vegetables.

On the potty-training front, Mia did very well on Monday.  We had a couple of accidents, but also many successes.  She is very proud of herself and seems to want very much to make it in time to the potty - so much so that she has many false alarms where we are all running to the bathroom only to have her tell us after sitting down for 2 seconds, "all done."  Oh well, better to be safe than sorry!



In other exciting news:  Trader Joe's peonies are in!  Which makes Mommy ridiculously happy!

Monday, May 28, 2012

Princess Luke

He'll kill me for these photos one day. 

In case you can't tell, those are Mia's dress up clothes.  She really has no interest in them (yet), as she is too busy pretending she's Buzz Lightyear, playing with Thomas the Train, or zooming Lightening McQueen and Mater around the floor (and occasionally taking her babies for walks in their stroller).  Luke, however, thinks that they are hilarious.


Monday, May 14, 2012

Where have we been?

This blog is so neglected lately.
As is my camera.

Which goes hand in hand.

UGH!

I feel like I've almost completely missed out on documenting the past month or two, but thankfully I do have photos from my iphone, which tell the story of where we've been and what we've been up to.

We've been in the yard enjoying the spring weather

 We've been to see Seasame Street Live:  Elmo Makes Music with our neighbor friends, David and Dylan

We've been celebrating Daddy's, Uncle Todd's, and Aunt Michelle's birthdays

 We've been creating masterpieces


We've been at the ballfield (Luke's up to bat - and has graduated from using the T to coach-pitch)

Luke's littlest fan


We've been waking up with SEVERE bed head

We've been on spontaneous mid-week bagel dates with Mommy (who is realizing that her almost-Kindergartener soon won't be so available on those weekday mornings)


We wish we've been sleeping this much!

We've been celebrating Day's birthday

 We've been practicing batting (and our game face)

 Did I mention that we've been at the ballfield ... a lot!?
Above:  Ready to advance bases.  Below:  getting instructions from the 3rd base coach

We've been hanging with Buzz and Wish Bear (oh...and we got new carpet - a 6 week project, but it's done and we're ALL relieved!)

Monday, April 30, 2012

Life with Luke (and his doctors!)

It has been so long since I last updated about Luke.  So much has transpired since.  First an update on all of his medical "stuff":

After Luke's appointment with his eye Dr. in January we decreased the patching of the right eye down to one hour a week.  At that appointment it was also noticed that he was in need of a new prescription.  Thankfully, our vision insurance has been wonderful through all of this, and they expedited our eligibility for new lenses, so Luke got those right away.  More recently we re-visited the eye doctor in April and received the good news that with his new glasses, Luke's vision is now 20/20 in both eyes!  She also decreased the patching even further, to just a few times a month for one hour and pushed out his next check-up to 10 weeks.

I found a new ENT specialist who will now handle all of his ear care (if needed).  She came highly recommended from Dr. Dugoni and is also at Lucile Packard Children's Hospital.  We met with her back in January and she had a good look at Luke's ears.  She thought that the ear drums looked healthy and as though they were healing well after the tube removal.  She also did not note any fluid behind the ear drums at that time, so suggested that we handle ear infections normally through Dr. Dugoni and come to see her only if they start to become recurrent again.  VERY good news!  A huge relief.  That being said, Luke had a great winter and managed to escape ear infections almost entirely.  The day after we returned from NJ, he did start to run a fever and complain of ear pain, but when I took him in his right ear was completely full of fluid, but did not appear to be infected.  He started on Claritin in the hopes that it would allow the ear canal to drain and would dry up any fluid.  Since then I have noticed Luke asking me to repeat what I say quite often, so I am concerned that that ear continues to be filled with fluid.  Although thankful that it isn't infected, I am concerned about his compromised hearing, so we may need to pay another visit to Dr. Dugoni and/or the ENT Dr. in the near future.

Now for the most exciting news:  Since the end of January, Luke has been participating in twice-weekly, one-on-one speech therapy with a wonderful (really, wonderful) speech therapist out of Lucile Packard, Miss Amy.  After Luke's initial assessment, she noted quite a few two-letter blends that he was substituting other sounds for that she determined necessary to work on.  So, Luke and I made the trek up to Menlo Park (NOT fun in rush hour traffic) twice a week to visit Miss Amy.  Despite the drive, I have to say that it was really worth our time and effort.  I can't imagine Luke loving his sessions or his therapist any more, and we were able to start seeing (hearing) results relatively quickly.  We practiced at home and Luke worked very hard ... and I am thrilled to say that after about 10 weeks of therapy, Luke was released on April 19th!   After taking a few weeks off, we went back for one last appointment to be sure that what he had worked on was being retained and generalized throughout his speech ... it was, and so we said goodbye and a very heartfelt thank you to Miss Amy (Luke was actually very sad to part with her ... I was not sad to part with the hours in the car two mornings a week).  We are incredibly proud of Luke and the progress he has made.
With all that aside, here's a bit about Luke and what he's like at 4 years, 9 months old:

He has gained some weight in recent months and is weighing in at almost exactly 40lbs.  Not sure on his height, but believe it is nearing 43".  He is now wearing mostly size 5 in clothing and size 11 shoe.  His food intake has increased drastically over the past few months - I suppose he was feeding that growth spurt.  However, he continues to be be the pickiest eater EVER. :(

Luke is very full of energy these days.  His brain is going about a bazillion miles a minute and he has a TON of information to share and questions to ask.  All. The. Time.  If he isn't talking, he can often be found singing, humming, or making other random sounds (whistling, squeaking, drumming, etc.)  Basically, unless he's involved with a task, he is not quiet!

He loves, loves, LOVES school (yay!).  He is always happy to go and gets excited when it's a school day.  He spends much of his time there playing with his best friend, Christopher (who he now refers to as "Chris").  Apparently they spend a good portion of their choice time at school in the sandbox, judging from the amount of sand that comes home in his shoes and pockets each day.  Luke has had the pleasure of being in Miss Sharada's small group this year and she was such a wonderful match for Luke.  She has worked quite a lot with him on his social skills, as well as really encouraging him to explore things that interest him.  As a result, we've seen his mathematical skills skyrocket (he's a whiz at addition, is starting subtraction, and has an amazing start at understanding the concept of multiplication - we can now see very clearly that he is very mathematical minded), and his reading skills begin to blossom (he is reading very simple rhyming words and sentences made up of such words).  Luke's end of year report card was very, very impressive - we were so happy to see the progress he has made throughout his years at Mandala (more on that in the coming weeks as our preschool boy "graduates!")

Luke continues to take weekly swimming lessons.  He is a "Sea Turtle" and is working on arm strokes while maintaining strong kicks (a bit difficult still to coordinate those for Luke), as well as roll-overs.  Luke is taking a break from soccer for a few months while we are neck-deep in tball, which he seems to really enjoy also.

Favorite things right now:
-swinging on the swings in the backyard (he's become an excellent "pumper" and is content to be out there and swing for 20 or 30 minutes alone).
-playing educational apps on the ipad
-Care Bears (that *might* be Mommy's fault)
-Building with legos or Daddy's old Construx (he can often be found doing this early in the morning before the rest of the house is awake)
-Helping cook in the kitchen or water plants in the yard
-Playing board or card games

Luke is still such a sweet, loving, affectionate little boy.  We are so, so lucky.  Aside from the difficulties he occasionally has with his sister, he is a very easy kid.  We love him to the moon ... and back.


Sunday, April 29, 2012

Monster jammies

Trying out our new monster pjs and rocking on the deck on a warm April evening at Day and Paw's



Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Spring Trip to the East Coast: NYC

At the very top of my list of favorites things in all of the world is New York City.

No trip to the east coast is really complete, in my opinion, without a visit.  Luke has visited Brooklyn and Yankee Stadium, but this marked Mia's first visit to Mommy and Daddy's most favorite city.

This year it was very apparent to us both that we needed to visit the 9/11 Memorial.  This was an emotional visit for us, but in some ways, since we had the kids along with us, I was very thankful that the museum is not yet open.  Months ago when we first planned our time to visit NYC, we started to talk to Luke about 9/11.  Obviously, we did it in the most age appropriate way possible.  I found it to be incredibly difficult to explain to a 4 year old ... after all, it is nearly impossible to explain to an adult.  We bought some children's books that broached the topic:  Fireboat and The Little Chapel that Stood, and helped to explain things that I simply can't find the words to.

Michael and I said to one another when watching the unveiling of the 9/11 memorial pools on TV what an incredibly beautiful, dramatic, perfect tribute they were.  Our visit to them reiterated this a million times over. 




Freedom Tower
Without talking about it ahead of time, Michael and I instantly agreed that there would be absolutely no photos of us or our kids standing in front of the memorial pools and smiling.  After all, what's to smile about?  But, this photo (taken by Peter with his phone) took my breath away when I first saw it.  Mia, looking over into the pools, her hands leaning on the names of the deceased, with the museum in the background mimicking a fallen tower.  It captures more than I could ever say...


I was so proud of Luke. It's really important to us that both of our kids realize what happened on that very dark day. When we first arrived, Luke asked when we would see the twin towers. I reminded him that they had both fallen down. He saw the pools and said very little.  After a long day of doing the city, he still very much wanted to visit St. Paul's (the chapel featured in his book).  When we arrived there, our last stop before heading home, he absolutely got it.  As I held his little hand, he told me what he understood, "So, Mommy, the towers used to be where those waterfalls are.  And, this is the church where the firemen hung their boots ... and some of them never came back here because they died with all of the other people who they were trying to help in the towers, right?"
Trinity Cathedral - just down the street from St. Paul's
It was certainly a day of mixed emotions.  As we walked the city, I realized how familiar it all still felt, how comfortable.  I love that.

 The city was absolutely gorgeous and in full bloom
Cherry Blossoms ... my absolute favorite

Mia enjoying a soft pretzel from a cart ... and me with the lovely blossoms
Battery Park
Tulips...
...everywhere!

Luke's request for the day was to be sure that he laid his eyes on the Statue of Liberty.  We determined that the best way to do that in a short(ish) amount of time was to take the Staten Island Ferry over and back.  
"There she is!"
Mia and I with the Statue of Liberty (fondly referred to as "Sherry" by Mia) in the background
Luke and his new BFFs, Stephanie and Peter, on the ferry.  He spent the better part of the day walking around the city and holding one of their hands.  He just adored them both (how could he not?)
I feel really badly that after all of that so that Luke could see Lady Liberty, I didn't even get a good picture of him with her in the background. :(

A few more snapshots of the city...

Mia eventually gave in and fell asleep in the backpack, amidst the hustle and bustle of the city.

In the car heading back to Grandma and Grandpas: